Thursday, November 8, 2007

"A pair of shoes"

I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in this world.
Some woman are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so they don't hurt quite as much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.

Author unknown

2 comments:

Velika said...

Wow, Maria, that is an amazing poem. Thank you for posting it. Anyone who has had a miscarriage or still birth or lost a child will relate to it. I know I did. You are in my thoughts and prayers, as always, I'm here if you need anything.

Anjane' said...

Hi Maria. Velika gave me your blog address & I am so glad that she did! I really like that poem about the shoes. When I read about what you have just very recently gone through, my heart aches for you. I know that you will have tons of emotions...let yourself feel them! It is so healing to do so. I really hope you have comfort & peace. Thanks for sharing your story with all of us.